Sometimes, when I run into people from the past, they'll say something to the effect of "I follow your blog and I know you live in Pennsylvania -- but what are you doing there?" And since I started this blog after we moved here and never really gave an explanation as to why we came, I figured now was as good as time as any to give the people what they wanted -- but the readers digest version.
One day, 6 or so years ago, Brad came home from his "great" job to our newly purchased home in SLC and mentioned that he was toying with the idea of going back to school. To get a PhD. As in a 5-year-long PhD. Given the said great job, the newly purchased home (2 miles from my parents), and our very new baby boy in the next room, I was quick to nix the idea. And for the next 8 months we fought. But when Brad started leaving for work before Nick got up in the morning and coming home after he was in bed (and with his bosses working more hours than this) and with Brad alluring me with the lifestyle of a finance professor, I gave in. Okay, there might have been A LOT of prayer and fasting going on as well. Needless to say, we applied to a dozen Financial Economic PhD programs, picked one, sold our house at just the right time, and when I was 16 weeks pregnant with Chase, we moved ourselves across the country. That was the beginning.
And today we came to an end, of sorts.
For those of you who might be wondering how a PhD program works (as I had no idea when we began), let me break it down for you:
Years 1 and 2: Brad took classes and worked on research in financial economics. He took and passed a candidacy exam and comps.
Years 3 and 4: Classes were over with and Brad worked on several different research projects, including his dissertation, which I don't completely understand but I know if has something to do with hedge funds.
Year 5 (which we're in right now): Brad has done nothing but apply and interview for jobs, perfecting his dissertation and a different paper in his "spare time."
So....
After applying to 60 schools (Brad is going to be a finance professor):
Having 30 first interviews:
10 second interviews
3 heart breaks (Brad came in second place at our top 3 choices):
and 4 job offers...
(not to mention 5 years and 2 additional children)
Let's just say I need to buy myself a pair of these:
Because we're moving to KANSAS.
Yes that's right, Kansas. Now, I know what you might be thinking. "Kansas? You really want to live in Kansas? Haven't you ever heard of tornado's? You really want to be a mid-westerner?" And I know that's what you're thinking because that's what I thought. And still sometimes think. Because I am deathly afraid of all natural disasters. And because it's, well, Kansas. And the only visual I have in my head of Kansas is from "The Wizard of Oz" which, yes, I realize was filmed on set. But in my head, Kansas is brown, flat, and has devastating tornado's. But in my research I have been pleasantly surprised to find pictures like these of my new town:
Clinton Lake, right outside of Lawrence
KU's campus
And there are many people here in my beloved central Pennsylvania town that are from there, or went to school there, or lived there from some reason or another, and I have heard nothing but great things about it. So I'm starting to feel excited. We love college towns. And we love that we'll be 40 minutes from an airport and a temple (two things that we are currently 3 and 4 hours away from). Traveling to see my family will be much easier. And for those of you who belong to the same church I do, all of the mid-west church sites are within and hour or two (except for Nauvoo, which is about 5 hours away). So you have a free place to stay when you come to see those. We're prepared to love it!
And go KU!!
18 comments:
Congrats cute girl! Ahhh I'm so excited for you! You'll do awesome wherever you are! sn how great for him to be able to do something he really loves!
Congrats cute girl! Ahhh I'm so excited for you! You'll do awesome wherever you are! sn how great for him to be able to do something he really loves!
Congratulations! I'm sure it's nice to know, even if it's not your top choice. Our old home teacher went to KU and recently moved back to Kansas, but I don't know where exactly. I know he LOVED it there, and I hope you will, too!
So you've officially accepted? Yay! Only a 3 our flight! I'm so glad you guys know where you're going now and can settle in. Love you so much!!
I'm so so excited for you! That campus looks gorgeous! Yay!
that's exciting! I'm bummed you won't be in Logan though :(. I was super excited to have you back with me!
Yeah, Goldies! What a year the last one is, right? I'm so glad you moved to Pennsylvania, and so happy for you that you know what's next. Kansas sounds great!
I love your writing style and enjoyed reading this post. The area looks BEAUTIFUL and I am so excited for you to start your post-PHD life! Let me know how it is ;) But, I am still really going to miss you!
Glad to hear it's all official now!! Congratulations, Bekah. What an exciting adventure this will be for your family!! I love the picture you posted of the KU campus -- it looks adorable.
ahhh we CAN'T WAIT TO COME VISIT!!!!! congrats congrats congrats!!!!
Hooray! Congratulations friend! It's always fun to hear the exciting news happening to our fellow student friends!
Bekah that is soooo exciting! One of my very best friends just moved to Kansas last year. She has three little kids, and is the sweetest girl, you guys have to become friends! ;) My aunt and uncle and cousin live there as well, and the wards are seriously great, so are a lot of the school systems! That campus looks beautiful! How exciting that Brad is done (a huge congrats to him), and what a fun adventure waits for you guys!
Wow, I'm grateful for the recap! Congrats on the job. I hope it's everything you guys hoped it would be 5 years ago. I'm sure you'll love Kansas, and really it does feel so much closer to home.
CONGRATS! we are thrilled for you and hope your transition will go smoothly! love you!
Congrats to you all! What relief! But I am so mad that this came JUST AFTER we lived in Kansas City :) I will tell you I had the same exact thoughts of living there (Lawerence and KC are super close) and I love love love that area! Yeah the storms are sometimes scary and sometimes they are cool, but the area is beautiful and there are so many fun things to do there! I am really excited for you guys and hope you enjoy it as much as we did!
Congratulations Bekah! I'm so glad your job search is at an end. I wish you were going to be closer, but it looks like a great place to live. And I love the pictures of the kids from Christmas.
Congrats, you guys!! I'm sad it's not Texas but, hey, Kansas sounds awesome!! Hope we run into you somewhere sometime soon. :)
That's wonderful! So glad that your journey in PA will bring a new world in KS! Best to you in your move and your goodbye. The adventure awaits you!
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